The word “deathwish” may sound dark—but at Deathwishes, we’ve redefined it as something empowering, practical, and even beautiful.
A deathwish is any personal preference, message, or instruction you want to leave behind—especially things that don’t belong in a legal will. Think of it as a modern legacy list: part practical, part sentimental, and entirely yours.
Deathwishes are not about dying. They’re about living intentionally.
Most people don’t want to think about death. But what if documenting your final wishes helped you live more fully now?
Deathwishes include things like:
- What kind of funeral or memorial you want
- Who should get your favorite book or record collection
- Where you want your ashes scattered
- What message you’d like someone to hear when you’re gone
- Who should care for your pet (and how)
These aren’t things that usually show up in a will or estate plan. But they’re exactly the kind of details that bring peace, meaning, and comfort to the people you leave behind.
Why people are making deathwishes now
More and more people—especially millennials and Gen Z—are embracing a “death-aware” mindset. That doesn’t mean being morbid. It means facing mortality in a way that’s thoughtful, personal, and even joyful.
By documenting your wishes now, you:
- Remove guesswork and anxiety from loved ones
- Ensure your legacy reflects who you were, not just what you owned
- Feel more in control of your life and story
The Deathwishes app makes it easy
You don’t need a lawyer or a long form. With the Deathwishes app, you can start making your wishes known in minutes:
- Choose your preferences for services, burial, or cremation
- Add special bequests and personal notes
- Assign a legacy contact to carry out your plan
- Update your wishes anytime
A deathwish isn’t just about the end. It’s a way to ensure your values, humor, creativity, and love live on.
